Why Its So Hard For Me To Fall In Love with My Fellow Millenials

So I have just found out that a person who was reaching young adulthood around the year 2000 is called a millenial. I think the term comes from Millenium. Anyway so I am a Millenial and if that is right then I am guessing I should date a millenial, I am just guessing by the way maybe am fit for a centurion hehehe, My problem is I cannot seem to find a serious millenial who is either single and smart, or single smart and beautiful or hardworking single and smart. Dont get me wrong they are not all taken, its just that none of them even have atleast two of the simple qualities mentioned above. 

I know evertyone is gonna jump at me here and say but who are you to judge and what qualities do you have blah blah blah, but wait a minute I am just me and what I see when I look in the mirror tells me something about what I am looking for in a woman. I have only dated three women seriously in my very short millenial life, One was a Finance student, a law student and a journalism student. The most attractive thing about these three ladies was the fact that they were somehow almost proving to be smarter than me, were very confident and knew very well how to take care of themselves. 

I am attracted by a woman that can challenge my thoughts, that is not intimidated by the male ego. 

My last realtionship left me with a bitter taste in the mouth, I had just started believing I had found the right one when it all came crumbling. So for a year and a half now I ammersed myself in making money, if you came to me about anything else I woiuld never lend you an ear. I made it and spent it with my new found love of the finer things in life.

I lived for the blankets and wines, the bowtie events and the Sauti Sol concerts, and offcourse learning Salsa and Kizomba.


But all that was great until I had done itr all but there was no one to seriously remember sharing it with. Anyway so I decided to look for someone to start sharing these momments with and my oh my did I find it hard. I think if you detach yourself from a group you nolonger subsribe to their thought process. Because I found myself attracted to people way older than my fellow millenials, 


Maturity is just so attractive and to be completely honest most millenials are forever young so maturity has to be put on hold until they are above thirty.

In college that was a fete because you knew you could almost have anyone, party animals....

Dating Millenials has been crazy, most have no goals, 

some live in a bubble and others are just YOLOing through life making it so hard to get someone to talk about their lifes goals and issues to do with growing yourselves.

Anyway enough of me ranting, whether I like it or not I still have to get me a millenial and if I did not already mention it I have met some sexy, smart and sassy millenials that give me hope, hope in one day finding someone that I will run home to not because I wanna you know what..... but because it feels fresh and challenging to be around them. 2015 I think we oughtta find us a hot millenial and hopefully get married four years later :)